Alex is a sexual wellness aficionado based in Melbourne. With a background in sexual health education and content creation, Alex has shared expert advice on platforms like Healthline and Bustle. They’re here to guide you through your journey with confidence, offering insights on everything from intimate wellness to sexual empowerment.

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Each month, Alex, our sexual wellness expert based in Melbourne, will answer your burning questions about sexual health and self-pleasure. From understanding different types of vibrators to tips for first-time buyers, no question is too small!

This month’s topic? I’ve never bought a sex toy before… where do I start?

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Are you nervous about buying your first vibrator? You’re not alone!

With so many options of sexual wellness products on the market, choosing the right one can feel overwhelming. At VUSH, we believe in creating an open, supportive space for everyone to explore their sexual wellness journey. That’s why we’ve created this guide of the best vibrators for beginners, helping you navigate your first purchase with confidence.

Guess what? September is just around the corner, making it the perfect time to grab your first vibrator and explore your imagination! Whether you’re new to vibrators or just curious about the different types, we’ve got you covered. Here’s your no-fuss guide to getting started with vibrators…

What Is a Vibrator?

A vibrator is a type of sex toy, also known as a personal massager. It’s an electronic device that helps with sexual stimulation by vibrating both inside and outside the body.

Vibrators come in all sorts of colours, sizes, shapes, and styles. If you’re buying your first one, it’s a good idea to check out the different types available, which you can read about below.

When you use a vibrator for the first time, play around with its settings to get a feel for the different speeds and vibration patterns.

And don’t worry—self-pleasure is perfectly normal. For your comfort, we'll ship your vibrator discreetly in a regular VUSH box, just like any other product you order.

A Beginner's Guide to Buying a Vibrator.

Before adding a device to cart, VUSH Editor recommends asking yourself three questions.

“The answers will help you find the sex toy you didn’t know you needed,” she says.

"Think of it like choosing your own adventure, with a side of self pleasure."

Question 1: How do you usually pleasure yourself?

“Pick a vibrator that matches the sensations you enjoy. If you like penetration, go for a rabbit-style vibe. If you prefer external stimulation, try a clitoral suction device.”

Question 2. When and how will you be using this device?

"Other than the obvious, think about where and how you want to use this device. Is it noisy? Waterproof? Travel-friendly? All very relevant details!"

Question 3. What’s your budget?

"From $25 to $300+, you’ll find a device at VUSH to get you there, no matter your budget."

Types of Vibrators

Looking for the perfect vibrator for beginners? We’ve got some top picks and tips on how to use them.

Here’s a rundown of different types:

Clitoral Vibrators

Clitoral vibrators use either vibrations, suction, or sometimes both to stimulate the clitoris from the outside.

"Why is this important?" you might ask.

Well, research shows many women need clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm.

How to use:

Clitoral vibrators are simple to use. Just turn it on, choose your settings, and apply it to the clitoris.

Clitoral suction and stimulation vibrators to check out:

Empress Tidal - Clitoral Vacuum Stimulator is a great option for beginners at a reasonable price.

Want a device that mimics oral sex? This one works on other parts of your body too!

It's one of our top-selling clitoral suction devices and has proven to be a favourite.

If you haven’t tried a clitoral suction device yet, this one is a must for enhancing your pleasure.

1. G-Spot Vibrators

For a classic choice, internal vibrators are a popular option, especially for beginners.

Typically cylindrical, these vibrators are designed primarily for internal stimulation but can also be used externally.

How to use:

If you’re using a vibrator for the first time, having personal lubricant is important for a smooth experience. Choose for a water-based lubricant like Simply Aqua - Pear Flavoured Water Based Lubricant, as silicone and oil-based lubricants can damage your toy.

Internal vibrators to try:

‘What is the best G-spot vibrator?’ is likely one of the most commonly searched questions by people looking for their first vibrator.

The G-Spot, located on the front wall of the vagina, can be challenging to reach, but it’s known for delivering powerful sensations when stimulated.

The VUSH Siren Twist Vibrator is a sleek option that targets your G-spot with its contoured shape, offering various vibration settings for a customised experience.

1. Rabbit Vibrators

Rabbit vibrators are great if you want both internal and external stimulation at the same time. They’re designed to hit both the G-spot and clitoris, making them a popular choice.

How to Use:

1. External: Place the Rabbit Arm against your clitoris and adjust for the best feel.
2. Internal: Gently insert the shaft into your vagina, experimenting with motion to hit the G-spot.
3. Combine: Use both parts together and adjust settings for full pleasure.

Rabbit vibrators to try:

Looking for a top-notch rabbit vibrator? Check out the VUSH Muse Rabbit Vibrator. It has dual arms for pleasure inside and outside, with multiple vibration settings to customise your experience.

1. Bullet Vibrators

Are you wondering what a bullet vibrator is? They're not actual bullets, just small and discreet devices with a compact design.

How to use:

You can use bullet vibrators both internally and externally, depending on where you want stimulation.

Bullet vibrators to try:

Check out the VUSH Gloss if you want something subtle and stylish. It looks like a lipstick but packs a punch with 10 vibration settings and a precision point.

1. Wand Vibrators

Wand vibrators first came out in the ‘60s, but they weren’t originally meant for sex. They were actually marketed as muscle massagers. Funny how things change!

How to use a wand vibrator:

Are you curious about how it works? Just place the vibrating head on your clitoris for direct stimulation. You can also use it on other body parts for a different kind of pleasure.

Wand vibrators to try:

For a great wand vibrator, check out the VUSH Majesty 2. It’s sleek, powerful, and has several settings to customise your experience. It’s perfect for intense, pleasurable sensations.

How to Choose the Right Vibrator

Vibrators aren't one-size-fits-all, so it’s worth thinking about what you want to focus on.

Consider which part of your body you want to stimulate, as different vibrators serve different purposes.

Reading reviews can help you get a sense of what might work best for you.

Finding the right vibrator might take a bit of trial and error, so don’t be discouraged if it takes a few tries to find the perfect one!

One Last Thing: Cleaning

Before you go, don’t forget to clean your vibrator! Just use a damp cloth with mild antibacterial soap or try a product like Foam 'n Fresh - Antibacterial Foaming Toy Cleaner.

We hope this article helps you choose your first vibrator and provides useful tips and guidance for finding the right one for you.