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Informed consent and communication are crucial in BDSM play. Discuss limits and agree on safe words before beginning. Always monitor comfort levels and never leave a bound person unattended. Stop immediately at any sign of discomfort or if any issues emerge. Consent must be enthusiastic and ongoing.

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We're excited for you! Start with a small ball gag that is made out of silicone and has holes in it to assist with breathing. Place on the submissive partner and wear it for just 15 minutes at a time to get comfortable with the feeling of having something in your mouth. Discuss a non-verbal cue beforehand if you need to stop at any point and take some time for aftercare post-play.

No worries at all babe! Before play, discuss boundaries and establish a safe cue (most likely non-verbal in this case) so that everyone is on the same page once the mouth gag is in. The safe cue could be something like tapping your partner on the shoulder 3 times or crossing your hands so they form an 'X' to stop. As the dominant (partner that is not wearing the mouth gag), make sure you are present with your partner, listening to their body language in case they signal to stop. Lastly, don't forget aftercare post-play, chat about what you did and didn't like and what you'd like to do next time.

Having a conversation before engaging in BDSM play with your partner, allows them to think about it without the pressure to say yes in the heat of the moment. An example of how you could approach the topic with your partner is; “I've been curious about exploring BDSM together, and I was wondering how you feel about trying it with me?” Do this in a neutral space...outside of the bedroom. Discuss boundaries beforehand, establish a safe word (either non-verbal or verbal) and practice aftercare for a sexy and unforgettable encounter!

This type of play dabbles in pain being a source of pleasure. If you the wearing the nipple clamps and they feel uncomfortable (in an unpleasurable way), try adjusting them so they sit at the base of the nipple. If it still hurts, try decreasing the intensity. Leave on there for a minute or two and see if that hits the spot, otherwise take them off and call it a day with the nipple clamps! Nipple clamps aren't everyone's cup of tea, you may feel like wearing them one day and not the next and that's totally okay!

Yes...when used correctly! It's important to know the difference between pleasurable pain and pain when it comes to any form of BDSM play. Check in with yourself and your partner frequently throughout the play to gauge where you are at with the intensity. Secondly, make sure you put the clamps on correctly. Open the clamp up, slide it to the base of the areola and then slowly tighten. Leave it on for a minute or two and then adjust to the desired intensity. Start with just having them on your nipples for a couple of minutes and build up as you feel comfortable. If at any point your nipples start to turn blue, take them off. P.S. When you take them off, don't yank them!

Of course! Here are some tips for our sensitive skin babes: - Cover the impact area in a towel or wear clothes to reduce intensity and redness to the skin
- Avoid targeting one area repeatedly, instead give some lovin’ to multiple areas of the body
- Practice aftercare - this may include applying an ice pack or (sensually?!) rubbing some aloe vera on the impacted area to reduce redness or swelling

Yes, but like cooking on a stove or hiking up a mountain, there are a couple of things that you need to do to make it safe.
1. Clear the space - be careful exploring wax play on your bed…open flames and sheets don’t play nice.
2. Test the wax on you and/or your partner’s skin beforehand
3. The further away from the skin, the wax is dropped, the safer as this way the wax has time to cool. Hold the candle at least 30cm away from your partner’s skin when dripping the wax onto them
4. Remember to always communicate openly, discuss boundaries beforehand and establish a safe word.

Like with any great chat about sex, this initiation of wax play with your partner must be first spoken about, outside the bedroom - as opposed to, mid-way through a hot and steamy sesh, suddenly laying down the drop sheet, whipping out the candle and lighting that flame faster than you can say “IT'S GETTING HOT IN HEREEE". Having a conversation before engaging in wax play with your partner, allows them to think about it without the pressure to say yes in the heat of the moment (literally and metaphorically). An example of how you could approach the topic of wax play with your partner is; “I've been curious about exploring wax play together, and I was wondering how you feel about trying it with me?”.

Wax play is often considered a part of BDSM. This type of play steps into the realm of experiencing pain as a form of pleasure (did someone say flames of passion?!). This certainly isn't everyone's cup of tea but for some, engaging in something a little dangerous or even the anticipatory nature of waiting for the wax to hit the skin can be incredibly arousing and exciting!

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